(But you do you — whether it's 3 or 300.) (I am partial to Date 5.) (But honestly, it's more like Date 2.) 4. Enough of a clique to keep it interesting, and be able to go out in groups together without the significant-other-tagging-along weirdness that happens when you bring a guy out with your friends who don't know him.
Otherwise you've got a Stage 5 clinger on your hands.This will give you both time to get to know each other and to figure out if you’d like to be in a relationship together.It will also give you time to get more comfortable to talk to him about it. I know that starting this conversation with a dude can be awkward, uncomfortable and completely nerve-wracking. I’ve done it a million times and let me just tell you guys something: I am really shy.0: Number of fucks you should give before the first date.The number of fucks is directly proportional to the chances that your date will be a Massive Fail because you are too nervous.