Now, providing for ourselves financially, money has afforded women the freedom to look for love outside the traditional, older, "provider" type of man, or even a peer partner. They maintain their youthful figures and energy and as a result, crave a romantic partner who looks as good and can keep pace.This explains the sudden surge in May-December romances over the last 10 years.Lisa Mooney has been a professional writer for more than 18 years.She has worked with various clients including many Fortune 500 companies such as Pinkerton Inc.It is going to be tough, but you can deal with the emotions and ramifications of having been with another woman’s husband. End the relationship completely in order to survive emotionally.This will likely be the hardest part as you have probably developed strong emotional ties because you have had an affair vs. Break up with him, even if he has promised to leave his wife for you.Add the fact that younger guys have more stamina, and you just may have a match made in orgasm heaven.“A younger man has more energy and is more willing to try things,” says Lindsay Slosberg, dating expert for the app Let’s Date.
Mooney holds bachelor's degrees in both English and biology from the University of North Carolina at Charlotte. The thing to do now is develop a plan to survive the liaison. Tell yourself the truth about it and avoid justifying it, thinking that it would not have happened if he were in a good marriage or that the marriage was "over" before you came along. Men have been dating and marrying younger women for eons. Finally the tables have turned and it's becoming more common for women to date younger men.If he is serious about leaving her (and be aware he probably isn't), he will do so, but you should not wait around.It is up to you to take him back if you want to, but only once the divorce is final. Obviously, it was not a perfect union, but you did invest time and your heart in it, so you need to grieve.